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Betrayal: a phenomenon and traditions. In life and business

Betrayal: a phenomenon and traditions. In life and business
After some event related to the topic, he drew attention to philosophical and psychological research in this area, and it turned out (yes really ?!): firstly, the phenomenon is quite widespread in life in general and in business in particular (not to be confused with “Kiddies” and trickery are two different things); secondly, traumatic, very painful for the person, leaving the deepest wounds and feelings – both the one who and the one who; thirdly, a rather confusing event, accompanied by sophisticated self-explanations and self-flagellation, and finally, not the most studied phenomenon in psychology and very little coverage for business.

Betrayal
Although, it must be said, on a small and large scale happens at every step …

So, when and with whom, who is predisposed, who and what provokes, how to avoid, what to do in the case. How to check a person, for example, a business partner, for addiction? …

Who

An animal that has betrayed the flock usually dies. Therefore, they have not accepted this, so to speak, at the genetic level. So these are people! Moreover, the closer to each other, the more unexpected and painful. In accessible psychological, philosophical, fiction and religious sources, there is even a gradation of the severity of perfect betrayal. And the most serious is considered betrayal, who would you think? Husband / wife? A relative? Friend? Not! Teachers! And the comforter. A teacher who has invested part of his soul and transferred life skills (survival) to a student. And why a honeymooner? Since cave times, the joint risk of obtaining food and a joint feast remain a subconscious attribute of the survival of human society. The betrayal of food co-seekers is the same as directing them to starvation. Can we draw an analogy between the ancient search for production and modern business partnership?

Who

A close person who has trusted you (a four-legged or two-legged friend, a group of people, a company, a country). Those. betrayal can be called an unexpected, in any justification, self-accepted refusal to fulfill their obligations to those who entrusted (entrusted) to you their future. It is not just that the biblical Judas (by the way, the treasurer of the whole company) surrendered his teacher after a big joint feast. In business, they usually betray: a company that has grown up, a boss who has learned and transferred his skills, a gape-feast-colleague, who have entrusted their companions to their future.

When

Usually at the most unexpected and inopportune moment. And all the more painful.

What is the difference from cheating? Difference of sensations.

Philosophical and religious significance. For some reason, the path of Christ to the resurrection and salvation of mankind lay through betrayal.

True face

Usually accomplished people are guided by the alleged choice of their own self-expression, prospects, opportunities, interests of third parties, i.e. space of options. And, of course, at the very moment these “best” options are tucked up. Moreover, in order to accomplish such a “feat” in their own eyes (and then in the sight of this action), the most beautiful and striking arguments laced with delicate pretentiousness are lined up.

Justification

So it was necessary for business … Usually their own personal interests are disguised as the interests of the group. The action itself usually arises spontaneously, subconsciously, but justification is constructed in the process or after. Think to blur others’ eyes? No – to close the mouth of one’s conscience. I repeat, the justification or justification of such an act is usually quite rational, justified, and even with mathematical calculations.

What then?

All the bitterness of betrayal lies on the chest of a devotee? Not at all! This is only an insult that, like any psychological trauma, it is worthwhile to get rid of it as soon as possible – having forgiven yourself, if possible, by turning off the mind with alcohol or with the help of a specialist. And the sooner the better!

But the betrayer is much more interesting. First, he (she) finds more and more explanations, rationalizes the expediency of what happened. Then he begins to publicly talk about it, to seek support and justification from others. Then, in the reluctance to see and in any way remind yourself, you will want to get rid of the object of betrayal and circumstances, from avoiding all the way to the desire for death to both the devotee and all the eyewitnesses. This, of course, is a serious psycho-energy that does not leave a trace. And only sometimes comes recognition and repentance …

Is there a retribution?

Is always. No matter how you relate to the karmic laws and the will of the Almighty, what you reap is what you reap, betrayal is generated and follows betrayal. In our business slang, this is called a “return”. In other words, you betrayed – they will betray you too. Thus, if something so “offensive” happened – look for the reasons not outside, but in that field that you yourself sowed. “Loving” on the side, sowing their sex interests above loyalty (explanation – “I’m a male!”.

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